Dolly Parton: Pretty Little Thing, Larger Than Life

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Someone recently asked me why I love Dolly Parton so much. I couldn’t string enough words together to explain to them why I’m so passionate about her and why they should love her as much as I do.

She’s fearless, loving, compassionate, hardworking, a pioneer for gender equality, an aunt, a friend, mother, sister, and grandmother to us all. She is an icon, the queen of songwriting, president of the United States of Dolly, leader of Dollyism, and one of the most incredible human beings.

In essence, she’s Dolly.

She embraces everyone, all walks of life, and through her lyrics, she makes people feel seen and heard. I don’t think there is a Dolly Parton song that people can’t relate to — from Jolene to 9 to 5 to I Will Always Love You. Even the ones she didn’t write are songs that I believe she knew would speak to people (and be big hits – she’s a businesswoman after all).

When I think back to when my love of Dolly began, it had to be Steel Magnolias. I grew up watching that movie with my grandma, mom, and sister. It was the first film I can remember seeing Dolly in. I loved her as the beauty shop owner, Truvy Jones.

I’ve learned that there are many things that I didn’t know were inspired or written by her. So, like any good fan, I’ve gone on to listen to all her songs, watch most of her movies (I won’t claim to have seen everything, but I try). I also watch any documentary about her, anything with her name on it (thanks Nextflix for all the Dolly Parton specials), as well as read articles and books about her. If you haven’t watched the documentary Here I Am on Netflix, you should. I think you’ll join the Dolly Parton fan club.

There is one movie/book that only mentions Dolly, but I think it shows you how she’s impacted the world. Dumplin is a movie I related to on many levels. Dolly doesn’t star or make a cameo in the film, but her influence is there in a big way. It embodies what Dolly is always saying about people and herself. “It’s okay to be different,” she says in Here I am. “It’s okay to not be like everybody else. In fact, it’s not only not okay; it’s wonderful that you are who you are.”

I could go on for days about Dolly, but here’s a few quick reasons I love her:

  • She gives back in multiple ways.
  • She may be a bit artificial on the outside, but she’s a real person on the inside.
  • Dolly is hands down one of the best songwriters of all time.
  • Her lyrics can randomly move you to tears or bring a smile to your face.
  • She’s whoever/whatever you need her to be, but not in a fake way. It’s about inclusion.
  • She may be tiny, but she’s got a big heart and personality.
  • Dolly isn’t a one-trick pony…”She wanders in everyone’s lane and pulls it off.” 
  • She never gives up.
  • OG influencer.
  • Humble. 
  • Pioneer.
  • Feminist.
  • Inspirational.
  • Did I mention she’s spectacular? 

I genuinely believe there isn’t anyone in the world that couldn’t like Dolly Parton, and if they exist, which I’m sure they do, they’re missing out. 

Still not convinced Dolly is a gift to us? Check out this article from The New Yorker and this piece from Mental Floss

Thank you, Dolly Parton, for sharing yourself with the world. ❤

#Alive relatable to life in 2020?

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The movie, #Alive, shows how easily a virus can become a pandemic and probably describes how many people felt sheltering in place in early 2020. I never thought zombie movies would be relatable to real life, but no one could predict this year.

***Spoilers ahead***

The rundown
It’s a classic story of boy meets girl. Oh, and there is a virus spreading rapidly throughout Seoul, causing people to eat other people. It begins with a young man, Joon-woo, locked in his apartment with few supplies and a sticky note reminding him he must survive. In the beginning, he has water, electricity, and social media to connect to the outside world but no cell service to call. As the days go on, everything gets cut off. He’s desperate, alone, and has a date with a noose. In the act of trying to kill himself, he receives a sign that he isn’t alone. A young woman across the complex with a slew of survival gear and a spiked chair that would make Buffy the vampire slayer jealous teams up with our main man, Joon-woo, to stay #alive.

Why is it a bad/good horror movie?

I don’t think this is a great horror movie, but it was entertaining enough. I wouldn’t say this film is scary, but the faint of heart might find it a little more suspenseful than I did. I think the filmmakers did a superb job of drawing you into the characters and making you want them to survive. In the end, there is a moment that you believe it is over for this duo, and you don’t want that for them. They don’t deserve to die on the rooftop ripped to shreds by the zombies. If you care enough about the characters, I don’t think it can be called a bad horror movie. It had some cheese, but sometimes that’s a good thing.

The creepiest/best/cheesiest scene or quote?

One of the cheesiest scenes is when a fireman zombie, using a thin rope that probably wouldn’t hold the weight of anyone dead or alive, starts climbing up to Yoo-bin’s apartment. Joon-woo attempts to save the day by using his drone to try to fight the zombie. Yep, you read that correctly. To add to the “suspense” of the moment, Joon-woo also has zombies “knocking” at his door. Yoo-bin is unconscious on the floor but comes to just in time to cut the hand off the fireman zombie, and he falls to his final death. The zombies also stopped trying to get into Joon-woo’s apartment for whatever reason.

One other scene that made me chuckle involved Joon-woo and Yoo-bin are waiting for the elevator with a hoard of zombies just outside the glass doors. I’m sure they are panicked, but they looked too casual to me.

Who won the movie?

Kim Yoo-bin – the girl across the complex: She’s a survivor and helps Joon-woo several times. He fails to “save” her from the fireman zombie, but she’s a strong female who saves herself (not saying that she didn’t need help other times). She’s also a believable actress and character. I love it when she fights off the barrage of zombies to get to Joon-woo’s apartment. Shes’ all-around badass. Toward the end, she disappoints me briefly when she suggests they should kill themselves while they’re still human.

3 Good Things & 3 Bad Things

  1. I thought the zombies were believable with the milky eyes, bloody wounds, and movement. I had a tough time deciding how to classify these zombies, but I’d say they’re a cross between the Walkers in The Walking Dead and the zombies from 28 Days Later. If you didn’t know there are different types of zombies, I leave you with this: https://zombie.fandom.com/wiki/Types_of_Zombies
  2. I loved that Yoo-bin’s plant stole the limelight. I hope it survives.
  3. Even though this movie wasn’t the best I’ve ever seen, it still deserves to be seen.
  4. A few things didn’t make things believable or took you out of the story because you were questioning it.
  5. The close up of Joon-woo eating noodles grossed me out more than the zombies.
  6. I wish you would’ve known what happen to Joon-woo’s family. The English translation just said messages. I have to assume they survived because he smiled.

Netflix’s Ratched Is Worth the Binge

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The rundown (no spoilers)

Fans of Ryan Murphy’s work (Popular, Nip/Tuck, American Horror Story) will love this binge-worthy show. The series is set in 1947 and follows Mildred Ratched (Sarah Paulson, AHS), who begins working as a nurse at a leading psychiatric hospital in California. Ratched is a classic onion  — each episode, a new layer is revealed about her past or her character. It is hard to decide if Ratched is helpful/caring or as mental as the hospital’s patients. The answer…she is a perfect mix of both. I swear the song Sweet but Psycho was written about Mildred Ratched. There are only eight episodes, so be prepared to be left in the dust, wondering what will happen next season.

The good, the bad, the ugly — mostly good

  1. I love how the all-star leading ladies steal the show and are the main focus. Sharon Stone is still fire. 
  2. The show may be set decades in the past, but it still has relevant topics we face today, like women’s issues/women in power, LGBTQA+, and a lack of good mental health care. It makes you realize why state mental institutions are a thing of the past, and there still aren’t enough resources today for those who need help.
  3. It feels like Sarah Paulson is a cross between characters Lana Winters and Sister Jude Martin from AHS: Asylum. She killed it at bringing Mildred Ratched to life, but I felt like I was watching another season of AHS, which I love. It would’ve been nice for it to not feel SO much like AHS. Several AHS alums star or make an appearance in the show, plus the set vibe and attire screamed AHS to me. Don’t misunderstand; I binged watched this show and think it is worth your time.

Showstopper 

Sophie Okonedo as Charlotte Wells — you’ll see why — She’s AMAZING and probably my favorite character.

I also have to shout out Joseph Marcell, aka Geoffrey from The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, who plays Len Bronley, a man who forgets his lines and thinks a lobotomy will fix things.